trivia of the day

michael just shared with me what his pastor said in church on sunday. according to a research done in the uk with 40 thousand married couples, the top 3 needs of men and women are:

men
1. sexual fulfillment
2. recreation companionship
3. attractive spouse

women
1. affection
2. communication
3. honesty and openness

my first reaction was are men really so much of dickheads and no way i am like that. if you distil mixtures using different processes and instruments the residue will differ.

so michael said the pastor substantiated each point with a verse from the bible, for example the point on men wanting physically attractive spouses, he said that god judges by what is within, not the without.

still, surely there is an inevitable interaction and mutual influence between a person's looks and their hearts. indeed as many actual situations have shown, how you look on the outside often affects how you feel, and this does not necessarily have to be a direct link, but nonetheless a valid one.

aiyaa. very late to think about religion and today is 2nd day menses. i hope for world peace and i hope all the children can eat healthily play happily and sleep peacefully.